25 Things Women Wish Men
Knew: The Secret Of What
Women Want - REVEALED!
Boyfriends make the best of friends and
amazing lovers, but it goes without
saying that sometimes (okay, a LOT of
the time) we think men could do more.
Familiar phrases spring to
mind; 'He never makes enough effort', 'he's always with his friends' and 'he never notices me,'
but as they say, boys will be boys. So we
decided to take a different approach in
getting him to understand by creating
the ultimate women's wish list (that we
hope will make things easier for man
and womankind).
And while this is no lesson on how to
treat a lady it's a pretty accurate guide
into what us girls are really thinking.
Boys, once you've read this, you will
have THE KNOWLEDGE. Use it wisely.
1. Small things count.
Some guys think all they have to do is
surprise us once and they’re set for life,
but trust us, we're keeping note. Why
not pick-up our favorite feel-good treat
while you’re on your way home this
evening (clue, it's either wine, chocolate
or cheese) or buy us that new book
we've been talking about non-stop.
Trust us, our appreciation will show.
2. The E-word.
Effort (a word no man is unfamiliar
with) is always the hitch. Take out the
trash, call us to see how our day was or
do something really special for our
anniversary. We're worth your time.
3. Confidence is hot, arrogance is NOT.
Every girl loves a man who’s
comfortable in his own skin. It makes us
feel safe and protected and nothing feels
sexier than that. But arrogance? We.
Can’t. Stand. It.
4. Chivalry is not dead.
Be old fashioned from time to time - we
freaking love it. Pay on the first date,
hold the door for us and walk us to the
front door. Promise, we won’t call you
stage-five clinger.
5. Don’t be a man-baby.
We’re nurturing, yes. Women love
taking care of their men and helping
them out, but as soon as we feel like
we’re in mommy mode we want out.
Most guys are kids at heart, but if we’re
doing more than a bit of coddling (i.e.
cutting your food into little pieces) then
there’s definitely a BIG problem.
6. Listen and take interest.
After a hectic day all we want our man
to do is listen. Women like to talk and
pour their feelings out - it’s a well
known fact. We confide in you, because
we trust you to make us feel better. So
please just mute the TV, put down your
beer and just listen dammit!
7. Be honest.
It’s true when they say honesty is the
best policy. Telling a fib might seem like
a great idea now, but women always
find out and when we do it ain't pretty.
Most importantly, don’t cheat and lie
about it. That's just cowardly.
8. Make us a priority.
Women need to feel like they’re more
important than an Xbox. Of course men
need to spend time with their friends
and have some down time, but 3rd place
isn’t cool. If your girl doesn't feel like
she’s a priority then you're doing
something very wrong buddy.
9. Notice the small things.
Everyone wants to be noticed by their
partner. New hairstyle? New clothes?
New dress size? New bra? Say something
to acknowledge our effort, besides we
(partially) did it for you!
10. Take it slow (in bed).
It can’t get any worse than a man
finishing before we've even started.
Women take longer to reach orgasm and
foreplay is key - take your time and
don’t rush. Thank you.
11. Turning down sex is NOT a big deal.
More often than not, if we turn down
sex, it probably has nothing to do with
you. We all have our down days -
exhaustion, stress, worry? They’re all
major mood killers. It happens - don't
take it personally.
12. Help us.
There’s nothing more irritating than a
lazy man. Try helping us out with
household chores, the school run and
daily errands. It’s just as much your
responsibility as it is ours.
13. Sometimes we need 'me time'.
Most of the time you can’t get us to shut-
up, but sometimes we need a little ‘me
time'. If your woman seems relaxed and
says nothing's wrong, there probably
isn’t. Chill out dude.
14. Learn to say sorry.
Stop being so stubborn! If it’s your fault
and you’re clearly in the wrong you owe
it to us. Go on, say the magic word.
Sorry can go a long way in
relationships...
15. Sometimes we really do feel like sh*t.
Men think women are attention seekers
most of the time, but sometimes we
actually do feel like crap. Don’t forget
those painful cramps, headaches and
PMS. Periods are hell to deal with - give
us a break.
16. Toilet humor.
While poo talk is comical at times
sending us a Snapchat of what you ate
for dinner yesterday is not our idea of a
hot date. Enough said.
17. Take care of your hygiene.
Brushed your teeth? Showered?
Deodorized? You’re a grown ass man,
just do it already.
18. Know yourself.
We need to be on the same page. If a
man knows what he wants and is self-
assured they're a lot less likely to seek
fulfilment in pointless things like getting
wasted with mates and talking to 10
other chicks, (for which there's zero
tolerance for by the way).
19. Do not forget our anniversary or
birthday.
There’s 365 days in a year and you only
have to remember 2 of them, that’s why
we get pissed off. Set a reminder on
your phone, write it in your planner or
tell your mom if you have to (just don't
tell us you did), but whatever you do, do
NOT forget.
20. Respect us.
Some men don't value their partners as
much as they should. Love her like it's
your last day, appreciate her for all that
she is and be grateful for everything she
does. Think about it.
21. Pinterest is your answer to everything.
Pinterest is your saving grace. It's a
collage of all the pretty things we wish
we could have and it's your job to make
our dreams come true. Use it to your
advantage!
22. We're suckers for romance.
Never ask a girl if she wants flowers, or
anything in fact. The answer is simply
YES. Of course we do! Especially, if it's
to do with rose petals, candles, dinner
and wine.
23. Cook us dinner.
There's nothing sexier than a man who
knows his way around the kitchen.
24. Things from the heart count.
If you've ever thought of making a super
sweet gift like a homemade card,
scrapbook or a mixed CD and thought,
'too cheesy', you're wrong! It's a great
way of speaking from the heart
especially since guys aren't always so
good at it (verbally). We're guaranteed
to love it.
25. You can't live without us.
Men often take women for granted, but
in reality you're nothing without us!
Who else would take care of you? Play
dress up? Make you a better man? Just
admit it.
Article by Laura Cardone check more on www.fiverr.com/lauracardone
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